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Psychology and the reasons for unwillingness to work

Why not want to work?

Work is money, status in society, but most people do not want to work.

There are even those who because of this cannot find a suitable place for themselves, motivating them with the fact that nothing suits him.

The problem lies deep insideStarting from ordinary laziness and ending with a person’s inner fears.

The main reasons why you do not want to work:

There may be several reasons why you don’t want to work, it’s important to highlight the main ones and to start from them, changing their attitude towards their own employment.

We must work, first of all, for our own well-being and the opportunity to be independent. But what if there are many obstacles in front of you.

How to want to work? Follow the advice of psychologists.

How to force yourself to get a job?

I do not want to look for work: what to do? You are sitting at home, your parents or spouse are paying for you. At the same time, it seems that everything suits you, you do not want to look for work. Let's look at it from the side of society:

• you do not benefit;
• have a low social status;
• not interesting;
• you have no money;
• pension and insurance transfers do not go to you;
• you do not pay taxes.

Society condemns those who do not workespecially if it’s a man.

You are no longer respected, and relatives and friends look in bewilderment - how you can stay at home and not strive for anything.

Look at it from your side:

• you have no means of livelihood or very few of them;
• you depend materially on other people;
• you lose your self-esteem, because you understand that you have a low social status;
• you have no development, and if a person does not develop, he begins to degrade;
• you are no longer interested in yourself;
• the prevailing mood is depression and neurosis due to a lack of self-realization.

What to do to force yourself to find a job:

1. Set a goal - to become more successful, make a career, earn a certain amount, help your family - choose for yourself.
2. Look at your life today really - what you have achieved, where you are, who is next to you.
3. Stop pitying yourself and looking for excuses.
4. Take responsibility for your life, do not look for those to blame for other people or situations.
5. Get up, open the ads and go for a few interviews.

If the husband expels to work

My husband makes me work, but I don’t want to.

Affluence in the family, as a rule, is ensured by all able-bodied members.

If you do not have enough money, then they need to be taken from somewhere.

Husband forced to work two jobs or seven days a week? He is definitely getting tired. But the reason that he asks his wife to go to work is not only in finances. He wants to see you realize yourself, develop, have some weight in society. He wants to be proud of you.

Find what pleases you. Modernity is good because you can find a job from which you will experience joy.

Think   what are you interested in. Perhaps a long-forgotten hobby or an unfulfilled dream.

To get started, go out   on an incomplete schedule or on a replacement. If you have not worked for a long time, then you will have to get used to the new state - it is not so easy to get up in the morning and spend active all day.

Labor by profession is not a joy

I do not want to work in my specialty: what to do? We choose a specialty for study at school or youth. Often we follow the path that parents offer, completely ignoring the tendencies and desires of the child.

Eventually comes disappointment- the chosen occupation is not happy or there are no abilities for it at all.

A person can work until retirement in an unloved position, guided by the fact that he has learned, spent time and money.

Another one fear - change.  You don’t know how to change your life, work, company, are afraid of changes, doubt, if it doesn’t work out, make a mistake, and there’s nowhere to return.

Work is one area of \u200b\u200blife that should. If it does not satisfy you, then the only right decision is   change her. It doesn't matter how old you are.

You can always take additional retraining courses or even get a second higher education.

Think really what’s bothering you - fear, insecurity about tomorrow - work on your emotions.

Do not want to sit in the office

How to force yourself to work at work? First, answer the question - what keeps you here? Why did you choose office work? Are you not happy with the principle of working in an office or working in a specific organization?

Office work has its advantages  before other activities:

Of the minuses of the office - sedentary, monotonous work, possible problems in social interaction with colleagues if it is not possible to find a common language.

If you want to stay working in the office, then pay attention to the advantages of such work.

Thoughts on work bring to tears

How to force yourself to go to a hated job tomorrow? A similar problem is not so common, but if you really experiencing sharp negative emotions, a condition close to hysteria, if necessary, go to work, this is an occasion to visit a psychologist.

Be sure to find out the reasons why this happens.

1. Communication with society gives you inconvenience  - Find a job where constant interaction with people is not required.
2. You have problems with one of the team members  - Learn to fight for your rights or change your job. However, if the situation is repeated in different organizations, this is an occasion to reflect on what you are doing wrong, why conflicts arise with people.
3. If you are an insecure person in life, you need to increase self-esteem. Try to communicate more often with people, use any opportunities for dating, develop your social skills.

You go there as to hard labor

No strength to work: what to do?

The work is hard, you feel tired already in the morning, communication with colleagues or clients mentally depletes you -   pay attention to your health.

It is likely that you have a phenomenon such as chronic fatigue syndrome. It requires treatment, a review of the daily regimen, proper nutrition and a reasonable alternation of activity and relaxation.

How do you spend your weekend? Do you arrange yourself good rest? What mode are you working in? Change your attitude towards life.

What to do:

1. Change occupation.
2. Visit a doctor and check your health - for what reason you feel constant tiredness.
3. Eating properly and fully - we get energy from healthy food.
4. Allocate time for sports.
5. Be sure to have a weekend.
6. Find a hobby that is not related to the main activity.

Rule one - work should be fun, or at least a tangible result. Rule two - do not like the place of work, look for another.

What to do to never work?

I don’t want to work at all ever again: what to do? Lack of desire to work is desire for an immature personality, a person who prefers to live at the expense of others all his life.

Think about whether you really want to depend on someone. The ability to have your own funds is some degree of freedom. Of course, you can arrange for you to have passive income, for example, from renting an apartment.

This is a convenient option for those who do not want to work at all. Or invest somewhere your money and get interest on investment.  In other cases, you still have to work, even if you open an IP and hire employees.

What to do if you never want to work at all:

The problem of unwillingness to work is - common in modern society.  A poorly arranged life, stress, inability to set a goal and motivate oneself are the most common reasons for this.

Find a reason to move forward towards achievement, and then work will become not a duty, but a pleasure.

How to make yourself work? Labor motivation:

Even primitive people realized that for existence it is necessary to work. This is the first action that they came up with, because you had to organize your life, as well as feed the children and dress. As a matter of fact, the needs of modern man in their essence have not changed. Now we also need to eat, organize our lives and get dressed ... and still pay for civilization. Everyone perfectly understands the need for work, but not everyone wants to strain and work.

I don’t want to work, what should I do?

This is probably the most common question among the middle-aged population. When I’m tired of working and even far from retirement, I want some changes in my life, but they all don’t come. It is then that one has to carry out such an action as self-organization of a person in order to stimulate himself at least somehow. There are some ways that help you set yourself up for work.

Why do we need work?

If we turn to the smart people of this world, then it will become clear to us that work is some kind of activity. Man is a too lazy creature to display this activity just like that. That is, any work is needed for something, there is some kind of internal engine for every working person. This engine can be anything you want, because each person has his own set of values \u200b\u200band interests. Some stars study in order to name one of them by the name of their beloved person, others study their structure for the sake of scientific discovery, and still others build their whole lives, trying to paint for themselves the future. We can say that work is needed in order not to degrade, but to develop. After all, the first thing that a child learns is the actions of adults, and therefore their work.

What kind of activity happens? Kinds

In fact, not so many varieties of work exist, only two types:

• physical;
• intellectual.

Every person in his life works both physically and intellectually. Some professions oblige them to work more with their heads, while others can hold a spade in their hands all their lives. But it is not without reason that labor is ennobled. As the famous verse sounds: "all sorts of mothers are important, all sorts of mothers are needed."

Actual motivation

"How to get yourself to work?" - the question is not easy. But in this article we will try to find mechanisms that will help a person not to suffer in search of an answer to this question.

First of all, you need to deal with the causes of unwillingness to work. There may be a lot of them, but they all come together in such groups:

If there is none of the above reasons to not work, then the question is: "I do not want to work, what should I do?" can be solved by other methods.

Streamline work - solve a problem with desire?

Human life consists of repeating identical actions, which are called rituals. These actions help us to tune in a certain mood, mood, most often working. Just about these rituals will be discussed.

Let's see how our day begins? Most often, we turn off the alarm clock, forget ourselves for a moment and, opening our eyes, are horrified to realize that we lost precious time. Then the whole day goes head over heels, and we fall asleep with the thought of unfinished business. The secret to success is orderliness. When the whole day is pre-planned, then in the morning we set ourselves up for work and cheerfulness appears. Certain rituals in our lives help coordinate our behavior. For example, brushing your teeth every morning has not only a hygienic meaning, but also a psychological one - it says that a new day has already begun and we should look perfect. To put a house key under a rug or to take a certain object for work every day are actions that make us stable, orderly and confident. Try at least once to disrupt the procedure for taking care of yourself in the morning and see how it will be difficult to tune in to the following. Our psyche needs rituals so that we feel calm and confident.

But what to do with the desire to work, how is it related to rituals? You can say - directly! When a person feels inwardly comfortable, calm, he will have a desire to do something, to do something. A lot depends on the internal mood, then "need to work" will change to "I want to act."

What to do with fatigue?

With internal problems sorted out, but what to do with the accumulated fatigue? No wonder they came up with a weekend - time to distract from pressing work problems. But there are circumstances beyond our control that do their destructive business with our body when we do not know how to make ourselves work. Dullness outside the window, short daylight hours, lack of vitamins in the body, imbalance of hormones and other health problems - these circumstances exhaust us very quickly, preventing us from recovering. Fruits will help here, a quiet evening at your favorite book, rich communication with loved ones, active outdoor recreation or shopping. A heart-to-heart conversation or relaxing outside the home can greatly improve our condition. By the way, during the “rolling” of fatigue or despondency, it is very useful to do your spiritual development, for example, go to the theater or listen to classical music - to do something that never has enough time.

Self Help Methods

A person who works not according to his interests and abilities, but according to the circumstances, receives less pleasure from each action. There are certain methods that can help a person tune in to specific actions and achieve excellent results.

1. Decide what exactly needs to be done. A person may not want to work due to a lack of a clear plan. The fact is that we are often piled on a mountain of things that we need to do almost instantly. If you develop a clear plan of action, then this mountain does not seem so large-scale, complex. You need to make a plan based on your biological clock.
2. When a difficult job piles on a person, he does not know how to force himself to work, because of a feeling of helplessness and unconscious fear. But it is worth breaking such work into small stages, as soon as light appears at the end of the tunnel. In addition, when each stage of such an impromptu plan is completed, another small victory appears in your life and you want to achieve something more and work on.
3. A very effective psychological trick is the exercise "Inactive stool." You need to take a chair, put it in the middle of the room, sit on it and say to yourself: "Either I will get down to work, or I will sit here." It will take quite a bit of time to want to get up and do at least something.
4. Soberly assess your capabilities today. If there is fatigue and time, then things can be postponed until tomorrow - to work simply when a person has slept and has a new look at his duties and tasks.
5. In any work, even the most boring and tedious, you need to learn how to look for something useful or some kind of repetition. Interest in even the little things will motivate us to work for self-development, and repetition will remind us that with each completion of another stage of work, it becomes smaller.

Negative motivation also works.

There are people who work not for something, but in spite of something. For such a whip will be effective as a result of outstanding work. When thoughts like “I don’t want to work, what should I do?” Are oppressed, a person must build a whip system for himself. How it's done? Let's say you need to clean the whole apartment in 2 hours. I don’t feel like cleaning up even a vacuum cleaner from the cabinet. Then the promise comes to the rescue: "if I don’t take it off, I won’t go to the disco", or "the cake will pass me by if the apartment does not shine." Each has its own “hook”, which you can cling to, having come up with a negative motivation. Here, healthy competition will work just as well - an adequate desire to be the first.

Self promotion

Along with negative motivation, positive must also be present, or rather, prevail. Such an incentive to any work not only helps to perform certain actions, but also forms a positive outlook on things. Then a person works at will, the main motive for him will be “I want to work,” that is, personal interest will appear. You can buy something tasty or something you like at the end of work. Promotion can come not only from the employee himself, but also from the employer. There are systems of bonuses, days off and holidays that stimulate the employee to quality work.

A little bit about responsibility

Even when no motivation works, there is no time to do psychological exercises or laziness, winter puts pressure on whiskey with its boredom and gloom, no one has canceled the concept of duty. A person should clearly understand that there is no one to do this work besides him, that he must do something. Of course, strong-willed people find it easier to find the remnants of responsibility. But why not develop a responsibility and a sense of duty here, specifically at an existing job? Then your personality will not suffer, and the employer will be satisfied.

Relatives and loved ones as an incentive to work

People who know how to value family relationships, relatives and their relatives know how to make themselves work. There is such a saying among pilots that the sky of frustration in the family does not forgive. If intrafamilial relationships affect a person so much that one cannot even go on a flight or test in a depressed state, then one can try to make sure that they have a positive effect on the performance of the work. In the war years, when it was very tight with food and clothes, when people died in whole villages, mothers tried their best to give everything to their children. And now relatives and loved ones can stimulate a person to work and new achievements.

Interest defeats laziness

There are seven basic instincts in humans, one of which is the cognitive instinct. All of them are more or less manifested in us. Moreover, instincts are what we have from birth, regardless of where we were brought up. Laziness, as already mentioned, is a character trait. Any specialist will tell you that instincts are much deeper in the personality than laziness. Therefore, it is realistic for everyone to cope with this disastrous trait, even the most lazy person wonders how to earn a ruble so that at least enough for bread. You can use this if you want to seriously engage in the development of industriousness.

And finally: how to make my husband work?

Many women languish from lazy husbands. Male psychology is slightly different from female psychology, so often in families there are problems about the husband's employment. In such cases, the main thing is not to cut, for men it is worse than prostatitis (it can be cured, but you can’t change your wife). In order to know how to make your husband work, you need to remember all the tips that have been listed here, and apply them in a married life without reproach and with love.

Why don't some people want to work? By whom this question is not considered. And philosophers who seek meaning and purpose in any work. And by managers who are developing different ways to stimulate increased performance. And parents who wonder why an adult son does not want to work. And by wives who marvel at their husbands, sitting on the couch for months and completely caring neither about work nor about food, even for themselves, not to mention their wife and children. And we ourselves sometimes really do not want to work very much, and what to do with this is completely unknown, because money does not fall from the ceiling and life cannot be raspberry for no reason. So why do we people do not want to work? And how to eradicate our laziness?

Why do people not want to work? What is the reason for our laziness?
  What are the reasons for not wanting to work?
  Is there a cure for increasing working capacity, or at least for the appearance of an elementary desire to work?

Outwardly, all people who do not want to work look almost the same. They lie on the couch, play computer games, sleep for a long time, find many important small things, just to not work.

At the same time, some of them at least come up with excuses for themselves, while others do not even do this. And it is this external similarity that creates the main problem for us - it seems to us that all people do not want to work for the same reason. In fact, the reasons for the unwillingness to work lie in our psychology, and there may be a cart and a small cart. Moreover, they are all radically different, and we often try to find a single solution to the problem, which should help everyone. This does not happen.

When a person does not want to work, this is just a symptom. Just like a rash on the body, there can be many for whatever reason. You can not look for a cure for symptoms, you need to understand the true causes of the problems. Only in this way we will find what to do with it if a person does not want to work.

Why do people not want to work? The true reason for our laziness

In principle, by its very nature, an adult is a pretty lazy creature. There is nothing wrong. It is in childhood that we jump and run just like that, because energy rushes over the edge and it is completely unclear where to put it. But gradually it fades and over time we have to make an effort on ourselves in order to develop, and not to stand still.

The problem is that if we do not make such an effort, then we suffer. The worst thing is for those people who, even in childhood and adolescence, were not taught to take pleasure in work in order to develop not only through the “stick”, but also through the “carrot”, which gives us life in the form of joy and satisfaction from our own achievements .

Own low inquiries, the installation that everything should be delivered free of charge anyway do not allow people to fully develop. Parents also do a disservice to us, when they give everything everything in childhood and never demand anything from us, then wondering why, having matured, the son does not want to work.

But most of us are nevertheless developed and implemented, in so far as to work and receive from the work process not only salary, but also pleasure. What stops us, why some people do not want to work?

Self-doubt is a stupor in life

About 20% of people have an anal vector. Analysts can be realized in life, as wonderful professionals. But it so happens that insecurity in their own abilities, as well as fear of new things, becomes a stupor for them, which absolutely does not allow them to develop. Outwardly, such a person looks like a hen on a sofa - he sits in the same place day and night and does the same, completely unnecessary action. For example, solving crosswords or arranging solitaire games. However, he is allegedly very busy and if you ask him to do something, he will always put it off for later.

"Petya, fix the tap, please!" - "Then!"
"Petya, we have a broken switch in the kitchen!" - "Yeah, I'll do it tomorrow"
"Petya, when will you find work already?" - "From Monday I will start searching"

Sound question - why work if everything is pointless?

Of course, life is not raspberry for you and it’s understandable that you need to make an effort to get profits for it. Say, live in warmth, eat deliciously and dress decently. But there is a problem for some of us - the work is not unpleasant for us, and we are not afraid of it, but we do not see the point in it.
A state where there is no strength for anything may be characteristic of the owners of the sound vector in a state of depression (not always realized by themselves). The most severe feeling of lack of meaning in their actions leads to an outwardly expressed state, as if the person simply does not want to work. In fact, this is not so - he is simply overwhelmed by the meaninglessness of life, and since this is a very painful sensation, he tries to escape from it.

I don’t want to work at all - this is how the sound engineer feels. Instead of working, he plays computer games all day, obsessed with science fiction, and all sorts of other ways of going into other realities.

Shy and insecure - I do not want to work, because I'm afraid

How and where to find a desire to work?

It must be understood that laziness is, in principle, not a bad, but a natural state for an adult. And, perhaps, one could live life and be lazy, but only the world is so arranged that a person still needs to develop. This is his task, and for this we are actually born. Therefore, if a person does not develop and is lazy, then life forces him - through suffering and lack.

That is, each of us has only two ways for life: either make the effort to work on ourselves and work, or suffer. With the right approach, the first way is not so unpleasant. It will also bring us benefits: salary, social status, satisfaction and joy from what has been done. This is possible if the work is selected correctly depending on the person’s vector set, and the root cause of his laziness will be eliminated: anal uncertainty, visual fear, sound depression or something else.

Ideally, work can and should bring pleasure, which completely covers fatigue from the effort spent. But, it doesn’t always work out - and we just compromise with ourselves - we work as much as we need money to satisfy our demands for life: for food, an apartment and travel. Then the work brings nothing but self-pity thoughts "

Hello dear readers. Today we will try to answer the question of what to do if you do not want to work. Unfortunately, modern youth often experience similar difficulties. Now is not the time when they punished for parasitism. In addition, many children decide that they can live off their parents and do not understand that sooner or later they will have to become independent.

Possible reasons

Often the thought “I do not want to work” arises from the fact that a person does not experience financial problems, that is, there is a source of income that does not force him to earn money on his own. In addition, there may be other reasons for unwillingness to work. We will consider the main ones.

1. Pathological laziness. A person is not able to control his vice. Instead of trying to actively fight it, it continues to indulge, does not want to do anything, just goes with the flow. Well, so far someone financially supports such an individual.
2. Serious difficulties at work can also cause unwillingness to work. This may be a disagreement with the boss, a complex relationship in the team. In this case, there is one way to solve the problem, it is necessary to change the place of work. And before this, you need to think about whether the reason is really in them, and not in yourself.
3. Unloved profession. Reluctance to work arises due to the fact that a person received a profession not of his own free will, for example, at the insistence of his parents. This problem is solved very simply, you need to change the scope of activities and try yourself in a new role.
4. Mental disorder. In particular, we are talking about a depressive state, which causes a serious feeling of apathy and unwillingness to do anything in your life. You may need to take antidepressants or try to get yourself out of this condition.

Miscellaneous cases

To better understand the situation, it is necessary to consider individual options in which there is a reluctance to work.

I do not want to work in my specialty

In this case, there are two ways.

1. To enroll in another profession. Of course, it will be a shame for the years spent, and the money thrown out for training, but working through it can’t bring you any pleasure, it will only make you more depressed.
2. Try to find a place to take without special education. In fact, today a lot of people do not work in a diploma, from sellers to 3D designers. It is not necessary to be a good specialist and expert in your field to receive the coveted crust at the institute.

Reluctance to work in the office

“I haven’t been working for a year, and I don’t want to, because I don’t like leaving home.” In fact, today there are many vacancies that do not require visits to the office. However, here you need to be responsible and be able to control yourself, plan your day correctly. So you can do freelance, home crafts, advertising production or copywriting.

I don't want to work for someone

Modern youth is so self-confident and does not want to obey anyone, which often becomes the reason why they do not want to go to work. Here you have two ways.

1. Gather all your will into a fist and try to achieve great success in your field and become the boss.
2. Create your own business. Undoubtedly, for this you will need financial costs, as well as time, confidence, patience and perseverance.

There is no desire to work at all

“I don’t want to work at all, how should I be in that case?” The presence of such a situation is, in fact, dictated by one of the reasons why a person may not have a desire to work. That is why it is important to understand yourself and identify what affects this attitude to life. Often this condition is found in creative people. In fact, if you can’t cope with your reluctance, you don’t want to contact a psychologist or his advice does not help, then you can go one of four options.

1. Become a gigolo or a kept woman. So you do not have to work, you will be provided. However, you still have to work hard. For someone to want to take care of you, they must first turn their attention to your personality. Therefore, it will be necessary to work on your appearance and behavior. But here you need to be prepared that sooner or later they will want to get rid of you. Therefore, the method is unreliable.
2. Take some time to accumulate a certain amount of capital. Then collect all your things and go live in a "cheap" country, for example, in Vietnam or India.
3. Buy real estate in the village, go live there. It will be possible to live at the expense of a garden vegetable and products obtained from livestock. However, you must understand that here you will have to work hard to achieve something.
4. The best way is to turn your hobby into work. You just still will spend time at your favorite pastime, but at the same time it will bring you income. For example, if you love sports, you can become a coach, if you like to bake, prepare cakes to order.

I never visited the desire not to work. Moreover, I tried to earn money on my own, starting from adolescence. At that time I lived in the village, for the summer I got a job on a collective farm, where I collected strawberries on the field. Getting older, I got a job on the weekend to work as a seller. Moreover, when I had maternity leave, I was tormented by the fact that I was sitting at home.

1. Modern youth suffers from the fact that in my head there is the thought “I want only money”, but at the same time does nothing. However, over time, you will have to realize that nothing is given just like that. To get something, you need to make serious efforts, and sometimes sweat. Therefore, you need to gather all your will into a fist and think about what profession will bring satisfaction to life, and strive to master it.
2. It will be difficult to step over yourself, through your laziness, but you need to do this, otherwise you will not achieve anything in life.
3. Do not constantly rely on someone's support. Sooner or later you will get tired of supporting or simply there will be no relatives left who can help with money.
4. If you have your own family, a child, then you have to take care of providing it financially.
5. If a man does not want to work, because to see next to him a strong, wealthy woman who pulls the whole family on her, then over time such relationships will come to naught, and she will simply get rid of the excess load.
6. Some husbands themselves want their wives to be always at home. However, you need to think about the fact that over time you can be left alone, what to do then, if you have been at home all years and do not know how.
7. In order to be attractive to people of the opposite sex, it is necessary not only to look beautiful, but also to be successful, to have a good job.

To understand what to do in this situation, you need to properly motivate yourself. No need to set a goal to raise money. It is important to choose a job that, in addition to money, will bring social status, satisfaction with one’s life and joy from the tasks performed. If you have a job to your liking, then a desire to work will arise.

What to do if you do not want to work - Reasons for refusing work

“Why don't I want to work?”

“Why don't I want to work?”
  - What if I do not want to work
  - Dianetics
  - “WALK”

The problem of rejection from work in many begins as early as adolescence. For example, students, passing the next long and difficult session, sighed deeply: “I don’t want to study, I want to work” and dreamed when the treasured day of receiving a diploma and employment would come. And then comes that long-awaited day - the work has been found and seems to be generating income, but still something is wrong. And the same yesterday’s students begin to complain in a new way: “I don’t want to work with people, in the office, for a penny in my specialty”, etc. Everything ends with the crown of “I don’t want to work at all” and the subsequent dismissal.

Why is this happening and no one wants to work? Are almost all people forced to eke out a miserable existence in a place that they do not like or are in eternal search? To understand how to find a way out of this situation, it is important to find the reasons why the work has ceased to be fun. The main ones, as a rule, lie on the surface:

Incorrectly selected specialty. Most often it happens that at the age of 17 it is still quite difficult to understand what future we want to secure for ourselves. Entering the university, most adolescents are guided by the prestige of the profession or rely on the decision of their parents. As a result, work on a randomly chosen specialty can become a real hard labor and does not bring any pleasure.

The second common case is work not by profession, but with a lack of career growth and a clear lack of knowledge. In such a place you constantly have to seek advice that you give reluctantly. In addition, without growth prospects, many begin to feel tired and frankly miss.

Often complaints like “I don’t want to work anymore” can be heard from those who choose a lesson to their liking. (Find out ). Even if it’s a good company and they pay well there, an activity in itself can cause disgust and unwillingness to grow and try to get a raise.

Enumerate the reasons for refusing to work can be infinite. Poor salaries, lack of growth and personal hostility to the profession are just a fraction of the explanations that those who decide to quit justify themselves. But living by the rule “I want money, but I do not want to work” would be too simple. Money does not fall from the sky, which means that at least some efforts for their acquisition still need to be made. To do this, it is important to solve for yourself two questions: “why do not I want to work?” And “what to do?”.

- What if I do not want to work

1) To receive money "from the air", i.e. passive income.
Passive income is money that comes into the account regardless of your actions.

The best passive income is to create your own website. The option is not suitable for everyone, because not everyone knows how to write articles or does not want to devote time to its development. And incomes do not appear immediately, but only after six months or a year. You need to actively develop your site only in the first year or two, and only then it starts working on its own and it will only need to be maintained and controlled.

2) Do your favorite thing and get paid for it.
  Many people have some kind of hobby that takes time with pleasure. Each has something of its own - drawing, sewing, creating original jewelry from polymer clay or bouquets of paper. Even if you like to play computer games, you can make money on it.

Almost any business can be turned into a profitable one. You, too, will be able to figure out how you can get money doing what you love, just start looking for opportunities and don't be too pessimistic.

3) To reduce costs to the maximum.

a) Move to a small town, or better yet, to a village!
  b) Completely abandon the "excesses."
  c) Avoid transport.
  d) Rent cheap housing.
  e) Save on purchases.
  f) Save money in reserve.

4) To rent real estate.
  Ideally, if you have a two-bedroom apartment in the center of Moscow or a country house in sunny Spain by the sea. Just rent it out for a long time to trusted people, and for the money you make, live in a small apartment on the outskirts of a provincial town. Or you can go live in sunny Asia - in non-tourist places you can rent a house near the sea from $ 200 per month. And for $ 300 you can find a two-story house with a pool.

- Dianetics

Dianetics is a radical way to cheer yourself up chronically for life. Dianetics (the science of the mind) removes from the mind the influence of all the moments when you were in pain. Emotionally or physically.

Many people think that time heals. It does not cure, it only encapsulates the negative. Yes, indeed, a person ceases to experience grief some time after having experienced it - he is distracted, switched. Life is filled with new meaning. But the truth is that grief remained in his soul, forever locked in a secluded corner and held there due to the vitality of man.

Dianetics is the science of the mind, discovered and described by the American scientist L. Ron Hubbard, which allows you to completely neutralize any negative impact you have had in the past. It brings a person to his original natural state, which he always dreamed of when he read books about heroes, imagining himself in their place.

Dianetics doesn’t “add” anything to a person, it doesn’t inspire anything. It just helps to find the moment of pain and release the pain from it, like air from a ball. And then the next, and the next. Until all the pain goes away. At the same time, a person enriches his memory, as he recalls those facts about his life that he forgot. His emotions become very lively, he can laugh heartily and cry if circumstances so require, but the sediment in his soul no longer remains. A person becomes very bright.

This is very brief, since it is not possible to briefly describe a 500-page book. And even more so, to convey all the greatness of the state achieved as a result of its application.

The first four methods are very effective, but temporary. The fifth sculpts your beautiful health in bronze. So it’s strategically better to apply the fifth method to yourself, and after that, as life presents unpleasant surprises, the other four. To start, just read the book and you will forget what it is.

- “WALK”

This process is described in L. Ron Hubbard's book, Problems of Work, in the chapter Fatigue. Here is how it is described.

When you feel tired after work (even the thought of doing this procedure is almost the last thing you can bear without falling apart), you should go outside and walk around the block until you feel rested. You should walk around the block and look at different objects until you begin to see those objects that you pass by. It doesn’t matter how many times you go around the block - you need to walk until you feel better. and not looking, just do it.

Performing this procedure, you will notice that at first you will liven up a little, and then you will feel much more tired. You will feel tired enough to “understand” that it is time to go to bed and how to sleep. It is not time to stop walking, as you go through fatigue. You "walk out of yourself" fatigue. You are not trying to cope with fatigue through exercise. Exercise has always seemed to people a more important factor, but they are of relatively small importance. It is important in this case to distract your attention from work and direct it to the material world in which you live.

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